This week from Quezon City

Dear Family,

I will copy below the letter I wrote Dallin and Hannah, but I want to first thank you for your fasting and prayers.  There has been an unmistakable change in us this last week.  I have personally felt an extra measure of love from Heavenly Father, confidence in my work, and less fear and anxiety over problems in the mission.  There has been more unity in our companionship and more energy to do the work.  Dad has been amazing! I don't think he went five days on very little sleep--but he always wakes up early feeling ready to work again.  I testify we have felt help from heaven, had prayers answered and seen miracles occur.  Just tonight, one of our trainers called to say her companion was determined to go home to her family because she heard her dad, recently sealed with their family in the temple, was drinking again.  The meeting Dad had with her was miraculous and events unfolded in a way that she recommitted to serve and turned from tears to laughter over the course of their conversations.  Literally.  We are so very thankful for your sacrifices and prayers for us. 

President Bowen taught us that I am NOT the mission mom and Dad is NOT the mission dad.  We are fellow servants with the other missionaries in our mission.  That relieved me of 175 children and I'm down to just eight again, which is a big relief!  We are to direct them to not depend on us, but to take care of themselves and their own welfare. 

We started the week with MLC and that afternoon Dad did a surprise visit to some missionaries who'd lost focus.  A really great thing that happened this week is Derrick coming to visit.  He came to Manila Tuesday and we drove Tuesday night after zone interviews through slow traffic to have dinner with him.  He brought us a duffle full of canned pumpkin and other things from USA and Singapore and we had a great visit.  I appreciated hearing that their family has adjusted well to Singapore and the children love the neighborhood and school.  The next morning he heard from Julie that the baby monitor got unplugged and she slept through the whole night instead of waking up frequently to feed the baby.  Every since then, Ransom has slept much betterl!

We finished four days of zone interviews this week, which completes the third time we've interviewed all the missionaries.  Dad continues to handle the problems of the mission with patience and the Spirit, lovingly sending home one missionary who is better off not in the mission. Dad seems to have more energy than me -- I fall into bed exhausted every night!

Friday after zone interviews and mission office planning meeting we went to a Chinese restaurant with our stake president and his wife.  They live in our subdivision and have been so kind to us.  They showed us the crabs and the live fish before they cooked them and everything was very delicious.  Very early the next morning -- about 1:30am --Fenton arrived from Singapore!  It's been so fun to have him here.  He helped me all day Saturday and drove me to church this morning while Dad went to the far reaches of the mission to help missionaries and meet with a stake president. Fenton was great with the missionaries who came to dinner tonight.  I wish he could stay longer, but he heads home tomorrow morning.


Week's Disappointing Event:  Water flooding into kitchen from upstairs bathroom.  Again.

Week's Happiest Event:  Mission call to Megan Cutler --Santiago Chile South and to Sarah Cutler--Pennsylvania Pittsburgh.  They both leave in January.  And Emma Kimball is working on mission papers. 

Landmark: I fed the missionaries a meal with NO RICE.  (The Filipinos were a little disappointed, I think, but they made it up with ice cream afterward.)

We are really looking forward to general conference next week, but are listening at every chance to the talks in the meantime. 

Fenton asked me what causes me to be stressed out in the mission.  I can honestly say my biggest stress comes when I loose the Spirit.  I need it so much in this work!  I cannot afford to be without it!

Quote of the Week is from Sister Jones at the 2017 Women's Conference:
If we choose to focus on our negative thoughts and doubt our worth instead of clinging to the Savior, it becomes more difficult to feel the impressions of the Holy Sprit.

Love you,

Mom



From Dad:

Greetings to you both!  I’m grateful to know that you are a blessing to your missions and mission president. Just to be clear 99% of the missionaries here are doing their best and most are succeeding wonderfully.

I am very proud of all of them and recognize that most have not had the privilege of stable family lives or even any family life at all. It is remarkable that they do so well—even the ones who have had to go home are people, who, with a little extra help, will be just fine.

I’m not stressed out and actually I’m have a great time. I enjoy the work more each week. The Area President, Elder Bowen, told us that the first six months will be slow and sometimes hard, the next two years will be fast and wonderfully enjoyable and the final six months will come and go in a flash that will leave us wanting to stay. Here’s to that being true for us. I love you both.


Note the photo of Fenton driving in metro-Manila!

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